
Originally Posted by
Michael Ellis Day
It's not about the ice cream. It's about how for no other reason than the hero is female, the first place the writers go is stereotypical 1950s-1960s teenage girl imagery like sleepovers and ice cream. No doubt beauty makeovers will follow after that. Out goes the idea of presenting the most formidable and enduring female superhero in favor of cutesy signifiers to make sure no one misses the point that "it's okay, she isn't intimidating, she's just a girl after all!" Because for some reason it would be weird to write her like a grownup and use that as a starting point.
Of course someone could write a scene of Bruce Wayne trying ice cream for the first time. Or Oliver Queen overeating and getting drunk after a breakup. Or Clark Kent and Pete Ross having a sleepover when they were kids. But people's minds don't go there, and you probably just snickered at how totally gay that sounded. The natural thought in writing tv stories for male heroes is not to undercut them but "how can we make them more formidable and impressive?" But when it's Wonder Woman, the first impulse is "How can we depict her as a naive innocent, and make people think of her as symbolically a teenage girl instead of as a superhero so she won't be too scary?"