I was gonna delete the off topic post but started to read it and my brain died partway though. Twice.
That being said: I would like to read about the fun and chaos of geeky weddings, and weddings where people have cosplayed. Have there ever been issues with other people not understanding what was going on? Logistics? family ire at non-traditional weddings? I mean, from what I understand, regular weddings can be a sonofabitch to plot and plan, especially for a larger group: doing things differently can't be any easier, especially if you come from a more traditional family.